Monthly Archives: May 2010

Drip Don’t Pour

Posted on May 31, 2010 by

Too many people who are searching for love pour themselves into the first person that they believe is a good match. Pouring into a relationship is a serious problem. To explain it we can use the analogy of a pitcher … Continue reading →

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Mixing Pleasure and Friendship (Open Bar Letter)

Posted on May 28, 2010 by

Dear Bartender, I’m a single man who recently became intimate with a woman who has been a friend of mine for 9 years. I thought I was ready to commit but I wasn’t and she ended our relationship on a … Continue reading →

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Sharing Money in Relationships

Posted on May 26, 2010 by

Since money is one of the primary reasons many relationships end, I thought it would be fitting to address the issue of sharing money in relationships. Now, I recognize this issue is twofold because there are people who question sharing … Continue reading →

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Lisa Raye’s Vibe Interview

Posted on May 24, 2010 by

Lisa Raye recently interviewed with Vibe.com. During her interview she discussed her feelings about marriage (well, what she thinks marriage is) , love NOT being 50/50 and gold digging. Given my previous post, I thought her perspective would create a … Continue reading →

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Gold diggers and Glass Slippers (Open Bar Letter)

Posted on May 19, 2010 by

Dear Bartender, I find myself attracted to men with power. And I usually get them because I have the looks to do so. The men I date need to have a good job, money in the bank, a home and … Continue reading →

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