Monthly Archives: September 2010

Can Someone In A Relationship Remain Friends With Their Ex? (Open Bar Letter)

Posted on September 29, 2010 by

My boyfriend (of 4 months), is still friends with his exes (one of whom works at the same workplace as him) He says that the reason he’s still friends with his exes is because they were friends BEFORE they turned … Continue reading →

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Moving Up and Moving On (Open Bar Letter)

Posted on September 24, 2010 by

Dear Bartender, I have been dating my guy for over a year and I think we are getting close to marriage. I recently got a great job opportunity (that puts me in management) in another state but my man isn’t … Continue reading →

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Facebook Rules of Engagement for Dating Singles

Posted on September 22, 2010 by

Facebook (fb) is like standing on a podium in front of a crowd of people and announcing your birthday, current city, relationship status, employer and, in many cases, every monthly event that you feel is worthy of a photograph. Many … Continue reading →

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If You Want To Get Married Why Are All Your Friends Single?

Posted on September 20, 2010 by

Yesterday I watched the first episode of La La’s Full Court Wedding which is a new VH1 show that follows former MTV VJ La La and NBA baller Carmelo Anthony as they plan their 2010 summer wedding. During the first episode … Continue reading →

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Making Choices: The Mic or Marriage (Open Bar Letter)

Posted on September 17, 2010 by

Dear Bartender, I’ve been in a relationship for two years and BOTH me and my man are ready to get married. The problem is he only has a part-time job. Normally, (if I felt like this was temporary) I wouldn’t … Continue reading →

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