Monthly Archives: March 2011

The Truth About Relationship Baggage

Posted on March 30, 2011 by

I can’t begin to add up the amount of times that I’ve heard one of my male or female friends say one of the following, “I don’t want to be with someone who is coming into the relationship with baggage” or … Continue reading →

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Get Your Free Condoms and Grab a Lollipop

Posted on March 28, 2011 by

As you know, cocktailsandcognac.com was created to encourage conversation that deepens the dialogue between men and women around dating, relationships, and love. I believe that health is a topic that can’t be ignored in any relationship worth its weight in a bag … Continue reading →

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He's Afraid of Commitment (or is he?)

Posted on March 25, 2011 by

Dear Bartender, I was with my ex for 3 years. We broke up about 5 months ago because he told me that he wasn’t happy. I suggested therapy but he wasn’t interested and preferred for us to go our separate … Continue reading →

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30+ and Not Married…What's Wrong?

Posted on March 23, 2011 by

Dear Bartender, I’m an educated professional black man who is looking for “the one”. I recently reconnected with a girl I knew from college and she has all the right stats. She’s beautiful, educated, physically fit, morally upright, and she … Continue reading →

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