Monthly Archives: August 2011

A Brief Exhale in the Search to Find Love & Happiness

Posted on August 26, 2011 by

I know I’ve kind of been on a roll with posting videos but I couldn’t resist sharing Jill Scott’s song, Hear My Call. Instead of analyzing it, I am just going to encourage you to play the video and listen … Continue reading →

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The Role Dads Play in Learning the Lesson of Love

Posted on August 25, 2011 by

  I was surprised to find that Lil’ Wayne ’s How to Love video was more thought provoking and powerful than the actual song. The video shows the difference in a girl’s life when she is raised in a loving … Continue reading →

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Should More People Be Open to Open Marriages?

Posted on August 24, 2011 by

Yesterday a friend of mine (a self-proclaimed expert on all things celebrity) talked to me about a mini roundtable she was having with her facebook friends about the status of the relationship between Will and Jada Pickett-Smith. InTouch magazine reported … Continue reading →

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Stop “Fuc%ing for Handbags”

Posted on August 19, 2011 by

Recently Jessica White did a personal interview where she discussed how being hurt in a previous relationship led her to take a vow of celibacy. She said, “Until there is someone who is worthy of my love and a reflection … Continue reading →

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Flirting is a Dangerous Language

Posted on August 17, 2011 by

This weekend I went to dinner with my mentees and engaged in some playful banter with the waiter at the Cheesecake Factory.  While I only said things like, “make sure you only bring us the brown bread” and “I’d like … Continue reading →

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