Monthly Archives: October 2011

Do You Have A Question?

Do you have a question about love or dating you want to ask but can’t reach out to family or friends?  Send me an email at cocktailsandcognac@gmail.com and I will post your question/letter anonymously and give my advice. Cocktails and … Continue reading

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What Men Really Think About Dating A Woman With A Child

Dear Mixologist, What do men really think about dating women with children?       Dear Courting with a Kid, I have run into a lot of single mothers who are concerned that men avoid dating moms and their concern … Continue reading

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The Perfect Wife Doesn’t Exist: What Men Need To Know About Women & Women Need To Accept About Themselves

Recently a friend of mine shared that she had lost herself in her marriage. She didn’t quite know how but all of a sudden she woke up and she was the woman who quit her job and stayed at home … Continue reading

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The Truth About Snooping

I despise snooping (cyber-snooping, phone snooping, mail snooping, medicine cabinet snooping, etc, etc). It’s rude and just plain creepy. I hate it and I side-eye folks who engage in it. I think there are few things in relationships that are … Continue reading

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My Spouse Is Cheating But I’m Not Ready To Leave (Open Bar Letter)

Dear Bartender, I have been married for 6 years and I recently found out that my husband is cheating on me. This isn’t the first time I’ve had to deal with this and I’m hurt and frustrated but I’m not … Continue reading

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