Monthly Archives: December 2011

Stepping Behind the Bar

Posted on December 21, 2011 by

Do you think you can serve up some advice or have some insight to share on a topic related to dating, love or relationships? The Bartender is looking for guest writers to contribute to the community commentary on cocktailsandcognac.com. If … Continue reading →

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Are Good Black Men Really An Endangered Species?: Bridging the Gap that Divides Us

Posted on December 20, 2011 by

It seems like every time I bring up the topic of relationships, I come across several black women who attempt to convince me that there aren’t a lot of good black men on the dating scene. When I address this … Continue reading →

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Should You Beware When Dating A Man With Resources?

Posted on December 19, 2011 by

Well, lookie here. Lookie here. According to several gossip blog sites Vanessa Bryant has filed for divorce due to Kobe’s consistent infidelity. SMH. This is exactly why you shouldn’t call a truce and let a man take you on a … Continue reading →

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Do You Want Your Relationship At Any Cost?

Posted on December 16, 2011 by

Many women are in relationships they believe are on the cusp of marriage – wondering when they will transition from being a girlfriend to a wife. You may recall my post last month where I suggest that one way to … Continue reading →

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Make Sure Your Baby Doesn’t Ruin Your Relationship

Posted on December 13, 2011 by

While I am a firm believer that every child is a blessing, having one can take a SERIOUS toll on a marriage/relationship. Every late night feeding, furious holler for food and  hospital visit can leave a person yearning for more … Continue reading →

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